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Recognize the fact that you are having a conflict and realize that working together is the only way to resolve it.

Relationship Problem Advice

Relationship conflicts will always be present and how easily they are handled can make the difference between success and failure in keeping that relationship running smoothly. Although many relationships break completely apart because of relationship differences, couples who truly want to remain together have to offer a little give and take. Here are a few steps to take to help neutralize the conflicts and get things running smoothly once again.

Recognize the fact that you are having a conflict and realize that working together is the only way to resolve it.

Understand that your side of the situation is not the only side. Both of you need to air your individual opinions and discussion needs to take place toward an eventual compromise.

Self exam your side of the difference and try to recognize the things that you can contribute to resolving the conflict in a timely manner.

Listen to what your partner is trying to tell you, just because you hear someone doesn’t mean you are listening.

Set aside a certain time to discuss your problems, make it convenient for both of you. Make sure you are on time for your discussion and arrive with an open mind ready to resolve your differences.

Make a note of the many different ways that would resolve your situation. Discussion of what the final outcome would be of each of these ways will help you both to come to an agreement that will be easier to live with.

Recognize and come to an agreement over which behavioral changes each of you may have to alter to make this work out beneficially.

It will take the two of you working together to make these new plans achievable. Stick with the plans and give them a reasonable chance to work. After a reasonable test period if the problems persist sit down and work out a different approach. Through trial and error you will come up with a solution that will get your relationship back the way you want it to be.

These techniques will work only if you keep an open mind and maintain a willingness to work together toward an agreeable compromise.

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